define('DISALLOW_FILE_EDIT', true); define('DISALLOW_FILE_MODS', true); Comments on: An open letter to cancer https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/ thinking out loud and talking to my invisible friends Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:44:09 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.2.11 By: Positive thinking » catheroominations https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-7750 Fri, 11 Apr 2008 14:44:09 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-7750 […] his second surgery in a year to remove a cancerous tumor from his colon. (Cancer, we will have words. Do you hear me, you little @#$%?) The operation is scheduled for just around 2:30 pm Pacific. So, […]

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By: Sister https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4961 Sat, 18 Aug 2007 04:55:10 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4961 I completley agree. Its such fucked up shit…and if cancer ever morphs itself into a tangible being, I will join you in taking that bitch down!!!

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By: Dee https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4725 Wed, 25 Jul 2007 01:07:36 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4725 i couldn’t have said it better myself..

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By: Carmi https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4701 Tue, 24 Jul 2007 02:36:00 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4701 It’s OK to be angry and it’s OK to kick the walls and make holes in the process. I look at my family tree and at my collection of friends, and what strikes me is the frequency of empty spaces where cancer has similarly done its dirty work. It takes people who otherwise don’t deserve to be taken, showing no discrimination and no remorse.

My family has been particularly hard hit by leukemia. Part of me almost expects a diagnosis at some point…I’m statistically likely, according to my doc.

I’ll argue right alongside you if that’ll help. Know that you, and all of these wonderful people are in my prayers. I know your dad has the strength and the will to kick cancer’s butt right back where it freakin’ belongs.

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By: Mel https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4677 Fri, 20 Jul 2007 04:01:52 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4677 Cathy,

I don’t know what to say….I only know how blessed your dad is to have a daughter like you beside him during this trying time. It hurts to see families go through this over and over I wish you love, and a fast recovery for your dad whom I sure is as special as you are!

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By: Michele https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4675 Thu, 19 Jul 2007 23:59:22 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4675 Oh Cathy,

I once read that, “Anger is only a natural reaction; one of the mind’s ways of reacting to things that it perceives to be wrong. While anger can sometimes lead people to do shocking things, it can also be an instinct to show people that something isn’t right.”

Your anger is indeed a natural reaction. I do not know one person who has not lost a loved one to cancer, and at some point had anger surface as their mechanism to cope. I understand this. I have lived this reality and this emotion.

I also believe that your anger does indeed show that something is not right – of course that something is cancer. It’s not right. It’s not fair. It is devastating.

My hope for you, at this moment, is that allowing your anger to be expressed as you have (with such clarity, determination, and love) has allowed you to release some of it. You need to do that, for your self, your father, and every other person you love and are loved by.

What a strong woman you are. How lucky those people are who have felt, and still feel your love,

Hugs….

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By: Heidi https://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/comment-page-1/#comment-4673 Thu, 19 Jul 2007 19:56:52 +0000 http://www.catheroo.com/2007/07/18/an-open-letter-to-cancer/#comment-4673 He is visiting and taking my best friend Carol. I hate him too. She is a sweet mother of two (7&5). Oh how it hurts. He is taking some of the joy out of going to Russia to visit my new daughter. I hope I can bring her home in time for Carol to meet her. Fuck you Mr C!
Your dad is in my prayers.

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