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My family has been particularly hard hit by leukemia. Part of me almost expects a diagnosis at some point…I’m statistically likely, according to my doc.
I’ll argue right alongside you if that’ll help. Know that you, and all of these wonderful people are in my prayers. I know your dad has the strength and the will to kick cancer’s butt right back where it freakin’ belongs.
]]>I don’t know what to say….I only know how blessed your dad is to have a daughter like you beside him during this trying time. It hurts to see families go through this over and over I wish you love, and a fast recovery for your dad whom I sure is as special as you are!
]]>I once read that, “Anger is only a natural reaction; one of the mind’s ways of reacting to things that it perceives to be wrong. While anger can sometimes lead people to do shocking things, it can also be an instinct to show people that something isn’t right.”
Your anger is indeed a natural reaction. I do not know one person who has not lost a loved one to cancer, and at some point had anger surface as their mechanism to cope. I understand this. I have lived this reality and this emotion.
I also believe that your anger does indeed show that something is not right – of course that something is cancer. It’s not right. It’s not fair. It is devastating.
My hope for you, at this moment, is that allowing your anger to be expressed as you have (with such clarity, determination, and love) has allowed you to release some of it. You need to do that, for your self, your father, and every other person you love and are loved by.
What a strong woman you are. How lucky those people are who have felt, and still feel your love,
Hugs….
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